Vanished with out a trace,she left no clues telling me why thats why I was not sure if it was something dumb I had done, I'm thinking probably but I'm still not sure,of the exact reason. She had left before,but did come back I felt under attack from guilt and unsure feelings there often seemed no reason for the glares she was giving at awkward times like when friends were visiting and the children were lifting their voices in laughter,I'm not sure what reaction she was after but I think I'm sure,I tried them all,never knew which worked for what but I hung in there and gave it all I got I guess to no avail and no definite conclusion, now this disappearance just adds more question to the still growing confusion ,but now that shes gone I'm quite certain I'll be just fine and easily get along...adios bitch and so long...